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How To Be a Better Person: 101 Ways:

How To Be a Better Person: 101 Ways.

The basics are long and many! But they are achievable! To those who may not think so It’s because to some of us. How we were brought up and without knowing even the top 20! Let people, places, and yes things get to us. And again to some! Break us while with others make us into what as well as who we are today! There are basics and also some things as well as insight for us all.

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RUNNING ON EMPTY!

HELP!!!!! I’M OUT OF IDEAS!!!!!!!!

AND I NEED YOUR HELP!!!!!

WHAT WOULD YOU WANT ME TO WRITE ABOUT? I CAN SAY THAT THERE ARE 2 SUBJECTS THAT ARE NO/NO’S!

RELIGION & POLITICS!

THE 1 OR MORE THAT I USE!

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SORRY FOR THE CAPS! BUT YOU KNOW!!!!!!

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EXCESS BAGGAGE ONCE WE ACQUIRE IT (NOT BY CHOICE!) WHAT DO WE DO WITH IT?

When it comes to relationships both professional & personal! Excess baggage can be a real M-F’er for anyone/everyone. That! is Because when we came into the world. We did not have a manual in tow at all. As we grew up our parents themselves did not know what to do with it. At that time no one ever even heard of it.

So what did we do? We held on to it not knowing what to do. As e got older little did we know that when we did carry it over into our life. That it would do more harm than good.

For example! There was a repot years ago. About a couple of teens that found on the Internet ways to make a pipe bomb. The assembled it. When it was finished! The did not know what to do with it.

That is the exact same way we do with excess baggage! We acquire it! But what do we do with it?

Solution! : ‘LET IT GO”! We cannot let our past interfere with even our professional and personal life. Because in both way. Carryovers do come in the way of the people we meet.

Another example of this is! Let’s say a woman who is doing business with a client/customer. Gets “HIT ON” by her client. Even though! The client does not know that she is in a relationship! She gets “Bent-out-of-shape” about it! There is an old saying: “You cannot get into trouble for something you do not know”! Let’ say because she has been hit on by so many men! That she thinks “They are all are the same”! And what does that make her? “Defensive” towards anyone/everyone who is a man! That! is Excess baggage! If the man did know! Clearly! That is a very different story.

Because of her and her excess baggage. She can burn her business as well as personal bridges before/after they were ever crossed!

Or! In one’s own personal life. Whatever happened then! Is left in then, not now! Unfortunately! Even if one of our family members said/did something to us! Even then! It becomes excess baggage.

What do we do? Let it go! It’s like! If you have a problem. And you say to someone: “This problem is eating away at me”. Guess again! How can a problem eat away at you? It’s invisible!,

With excess baggage. Just let it go. What people said/did to you. Cannot be done over! “REALLY”.

I have did so many things to others as they did to me. But I do not let that get in the way of meeting and making friends and business professionals at all. Why? Because it does not make any sense to hold on to something that you cannot hold in your hands or even reverse the process.

Whatever the problems others have about or against us. The problems are out there! Not in here!

THE GODZILLA OF ALL WORDS “NO!!!!!!”

This! Has got to be the “Mother” of all words! It beats the pants off any SCI-FI flick we ever seen!

In Reality! We use the word! But we have the hardest time accepting it as well. Definition:,http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/no. In our own lives we have a problem with it. In business for example. Anyone going into sales the word itself creates fear & trembling in them.,

Having been in sales! I take the word NO! As in “Not right now” “Perhaps later” If you look at the word NO! It’s a short cut for the word “NOT”! You see where I am coming from on this?,

Let’s stay on this or a while. In sales! One does have to know their product/services extremely well to make an impact/impression the customer/client. When it comes to the product. There is a thing called: “The benefit of the benefit!” You need really to listen to them as they speak. And zero in on what they need & want from you.,

In personal life! It’s easy! When we were growing up! The word was a big downer for us. And it stayed with us into adulthood. And there! It sits. Do we learn about it? “NO!” Do we learn how to handle it? “NO!”

As I said! It beats any SCI-FI movie We seen!

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